I got together with my friend Stephanie Coontz the other day to talk about her new book, A Strange Stirring: The Feminine Mystique and American Women at the Dawn of the 1960s (Basic Books), which has drawn rave reviews from The New York Times Book Review, The Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post and a host of other publications. Stephanie is the country's foremost expert on marriage--she wrote the 2005 bestseller Marriage, a History: How Love Conquered Marriage--as well as a frequent…